Symptoms of Dependent Personality Disorder
Dependent personality disorder is characterized by the following symptoms:
People with dependent personality disorder should consider psychotherapy for treatment. This disorder often requires long-term therapy or treatment.
The term ‘codependent’ described persons living with, or in a relationship with an addicted person characterized by preoccupation and extreme dependence—emotional, social and sometimes physical—on another person.” Codependency is a psychological concept that refers to people who feel extreme amounts of dependence on certain loved ones in their lives, and who feel responsible for the feelings and actions of those loved ones.
Signs Of Codependency
The things that have been found to correlate with codependency include:
- Low self-esteem and low levels of narcissism;
- Depression, anxiety, stress;
- Low emotional expressivity;
- Having a hard time saying no and having poor boundaries;
- Showing emotional reactivity;
- Feeling compelled to take care of people;
- Having a need for control, especially over others;
- Having trouble communicating honestly;
- Fixating on mistakes;
- Feeling a need to be liked by everyone;
- Feeling a need to always be in a relationship;
- Denying one’s own needs, thoughts, and feelings;
- Having intimacy issues;
- Confusing love and pity;
Mental Dependence vs. Physical Dependence
- Mental dependence is when use of a substance is a conditioned response to an event or feeling. These are known as “triggers.”Triggers can be emotional responses to events, certain people, places or anything a person associates with using a substance. Something as simple as driving can trigger a desire to use. These triggers set off biochemical changes in a person’s brain that strongly influence addictive behavior.
- When the symptoms of mental and physical dependence are apparent, an addiction is usually present. However, the main characteristic that distinguishes addiction from dependence is the combination of mental and physical dependence with uncontrollable behavior in obtaining and using a substance.
- Recognizing the difference between an addiction and substance dependence can help to better understand the nature of addiction. Knowing as much as possible about addiction and dependence can also be a valuable tool in achieving recovery. It is also important to realize that while a dependence may be present without addiction, substance dependencies frequently lead to addiction.